I am a big fan of Sidharth Malhotra,
but this movie is definitely a great movie,
he just makes it better :P
I went to watch it with my friends and I cried,
because I was sobbing, my two other friends were crying too!
Well,
it's very family-oriented.
A broken family;
with scandal going on,
unloved child, perfect son,
misunderstanding love.
Dadu, the guy who's on the iPad screen
united them all.
I don't wanna tell the exact stories
like I did for Zootopia because
I want you to watch it!!
Anyway, I am willing to share some valuable lessons from this movie.
1. Love your kids equally.
Favoritism is a pain. As much as I do apply favoritism in my life,
I have strong belief that parents should not have favoritism towards their kids.
Kids deserve to be loved equally.
No matter how successful one can be, or how naughty another one can be;
both kids need an equal amount of attention and love.
Do not compare your kids,
comparison is another root of heartache.
Simple love them, they need your love :)
Appreciate them, it will make them being better humans.
2. Always appreciate your parents
As our parents age, they will act more like kids.
They will fall sick, but all they need is the kids' attention.
Take care of them like how they used to take care of us when we're kids.
No matter how mad they're at you,
all their advice is for you to be a better human.
We never know when will it be the last time for a family to have
a family time.
So, when you have one, cherish it while you can :)
3. Do what you love to do
When you do something that you love,
even you don't get high salary,
you'll still enjoy what you're doing.
But when you hate something you do,
no matter how high your salary is, you will still
feel your job is a burden.
4. It's not harmful to start something new
Take the risk! If you love writing and want to write a book,
start it now! Do not wait forever.
Because you'll never know, the outcome of trying :)
#tellingthistomyself
#hmm
5. The worst mistake is a marriage is cheating
This should be made as the first point, tbh.
YOU SHOULD NOT CHEAT ON YOUR SPOUSE!
DO NOT HAVE OTHER WOMAN IN YOUR LIFE
OTHER THAN YOUR WIFE AND YOUR DAUGHTERS!
A wife can be patient if you're a messy or lazy person.
If you get mad for no reasons,
if you do not give her enough money for her clothes and shoes;
most women are okay with all of them.
But the very fist second you love someone else,
that is not in your family equation,
you know you're screwed.
You corelle sets are gone!
You will be starving to death cause no one will cook for you.
You will wear dirty clothes cause no one will do the laundry for you.
You will not gain respect from your kids.
You will lose your family.
End of the story.
6. Forgiveness is one of the keys to happiness
But to forgive is a must.
Everyone makes mistakes,
even Allah forgives all of our sins.
But to trust again,
after betrayal, NEVER.
Love,
Aliah Nazamusa :)
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