The past six months, my life has been occupied with #fattzura love stories that lead to me reading more about them and #lofattah and all the dramas that involved in between.
This is obviously not me telling you guys about the gossip and my stance in the whole conflicts but I learn something from their stories.
I realized that there's a reason behind me meeting everyone I meet in this life, be it for good reasons or for bad ones. I don't necessarily think that bad reasons will always be bad, maybe they'll be lessons that can make me a better person.
In life, you realize that there's a role in someone you meet.
Some will test you, some will use you, some will love you and some will teach you.
But the ones who are truly important are the ones who bring out the best in you.
Sometimes, you need them to change your life,
and sometimes you are the one that will change theirs.
We can plan everything, but Allah is the Greatest Planner.
Thus, when heartbreaks happen, when you're broken to pieces and when you give up on starting something new in life; do know that those who hurt you and walk away from you also shape you to be the person you are today. Their absence might be a blessing one day because, without their absence, you will never open doors to meet someone better in your life, someone who will bring joy into your life, someone that will create more wonderful memories with you.
Have you ever met someone and you felt connected to that person,
like your souls truly understand each other,
like your brains, are connected,
and you don't need the right words to make them understand what you're trying to say?
That "Me too!" moment is always the spark that starts a friendship,
but "I'm always here for you" is that one thing that keeps the friendship.
I don't mind if someone who hasn't spoken to me for years, suddenly slides into my dm and asks me for help. I would help her/him as much as I could. Pan calls me "the wishing tree", I'm not God because I don't grant people's wishes. But I'm happy to be your go-to girl. And I never expect anything in return, because that's not how kindness works. I'm trying to be kind, I want to be kind and kindness is always my life virtue. But they told me not to be too kind, it hurts. Well, it hurts but the pain is only temporary. Being kind to everyone doesn't make you any richer, but it definitely makes you happier.
Also, being kind will make you become someone's constant.
Not everyone you help will remember your deeds, but at least someone who truly appreciates you will. He/She will be your constant, just like you become his/her constant.
I always want to be someone's constant,
I guess I've found my constant in life.
People come and people go, and people are gonna come some more.
They pick a fight but it's alright.
They act like variables in life, manipulated variables.
When you found the constant variables in life, the manipulated ones shouldn't matter as much.
You just have to adjust those manipulated variables accordingly so you'll get the responding variables (results) that you want.
Your hypothesis can be wrong because an assumption is not always correct.
But the conclusion (read: lesson) is important to guide you through your life.
You may think he's the one, but it turns out he's not.
You may never think that you would be his friend, but it turns out he stays in your life forever.
Life is unpredictable, so is love.
We don't meet people by accident,
everyone is meant to cross path for reasons!
Fazura, too had her hard times in love life before, she almost gave up, but she found the one.
Love takes time, requires a lot of patience and when the right time comes, you will find the right person in your life, for the best reason.
You just have to pray for that moment.
We all have to :)
Relatable ^_^
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